My girlfriend and Work Are Wearing Me out; ‘I Find Myself Wanting to Just Disappear’

I’m a male office worker in my late 20s. After graduating from college, I left my hometown to start working.

After more than two years of hard work, I became psychologically ill and took a two-month leave of absence. I’m now back at work on the same team as before, but I’m considering changing jobs, as the working environment is the same as before.

My girlfriend, with whom I’ve been living for half a year, is pushing me to get married and have children. She tells me to stick with my current job because if I change jobs now, we will have to put off having a baby and it will make it harder for her to take maternity leave.