My friend chose an anti-gay pastor for her wedding. I’m the queer maid of honor.
- Posted on November 1, 2025
- By Washington Post
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My friend chose an anti-gay pastor for her wedding. I’m the queer maid of honor.

Washington Post advice columnist Carolyn Hax responds to a queer-identifying maid of honor who feels uncomfortable with her friend’s officiant.