My ex is having an affair with another soccer mum and I feel complicit. Do I tell the husband or keep it quiet?
- Posted on November 20, 2025
- By The Guardian
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My ex is having an affair with another soccer mum and I feel complicit. Do I tell the husband or keep it quiet?

They probably underestimate the cost to you of keeping this secret, writes Eleanor Gordon-Smith. Before you tell the husband, could you talk to your ex?