My boyfriend knows I don’t orgasm – but not that I feel no pleasure in sex at all
- Posted on February 4, 2025
- By The Guardian
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My boyfriend knows I don’t orgasm – but not that I feel no pleasure in sex at all
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When a partner touches me during foreplay, they may as well be touching my knee. What can I do?