I refuse to provide for my stepmom after she quit her job on purpose — I am not a credit card

The transition into adulthood is supposed to be a time of building a foundation. However, in some families, a child’s first paycheck is seen as an open faucet for the parents’ needs. When parents stop working or increase their spending the moment a child starts earning, it creates a “success tax” that can trap a young professional in a cycle of debt and guilt before their career even begins.